
I really hope this helps anyone else out there with the same issues as me. actually the problem started happening every day the moment i got my new xbox wireless adapter for windows and installed the driver for. If you havent already ensure you restart your desktop as well and retry.
XBOX WIRELESS ADAPTER FOR WINDOWS 10 DRIVERS
Products: Windows 10 Anniversary Update and Later Servicing Drivers,Windows 10 S and Later Servicing Drivers Its possible the code 10 is related to the USB controller drivers rather than the actual Wireless adapter drivers being incorrect. In order to manually update your driver, follow the steps below (the next steps): 1. Press and release the controller's Pair button on the console. When the button stays lit, the controller is connected. Features a 66 smaller design, wireless stereo sound support, and the ability to connect up to eight controllers at once. Follow these steps to pair your controller to the Xbox Wireless Adaptor for Windows: Turn on your controller by pressing and holding the Xbox button. The package provides the installation files for Microsoft Xbox Wireless Adapter Driver version 20.24.34.491. With the new and improved Xbox Wireless Adapter for Windows 10, you can play your favorite PC games using any Xbox Wireless Controller. Rating 4.5 out of 5 stars with 466 reviews.

Title: Xbox - Net - 12:00:00 AM - 1.0.46.1 Download Microsoft Xbox Wireless Adapter Driver 20.24.34.491 for Windows 10 64-bit - Network Card. Microsoft - Xbox Wireless Controller for Windows Devices, Xbox Series X, Xbox Series S, Xbox One + Wireless Adapter - Carbon Black.

What actually fixed it was a NEWER, entirely different (and deceptively named) driver in the Update Catalog. I figured out that you can use the “Have disk…” option in the driver update dialog to force the install, but that still didn’t fix it - Device Manager correctly identified the device as “Xbox Wireless Adapter”, but it showed error code 10 and still failed to work.
